Hispanic woman dating a black man
Well I stopped doing that because I don't see him as black, I just see him as him. Although, my brothers and I have assimilated into American culture and they met all my racially diverse friends in college, I wonder how they will take it? So nowadays, I don't even say anything that is race-related when I am going to meet friends or co-workers.
It seems to me that they pick up the black men that black women don't usually want, or anyone wants!
I will give you a couple of examples, and if you are one of those women, and you want to get all upset and defensive, just prove to me how I am wrong!
First situation is a black men that has 3 kids, in different areas of the world, by three different women!
He doesn't see them or even know them well enough to bond with them.
What kind of woman would want to be with a man who treats his children wrong?
Well, that would be the Hispanic women that seems to have been culturally abused and think they deserve nothing good!
The interest may or may not be mutual for any number of reasons that may or may not have anything to do with ethnicity.
It's been a while since I lived in New York City, but it has been brought to my attention that a lot of African-American men in New York have hot desires for a Latin-American woman.
If we are going to meet some of my friends for the very first time, I used to tell them how nice he is, how we met, etc.