If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.

Shy guys are shy around new people and in new situations.

They are not shy when they are with people that they know. When I am with my friends, I am just as outgoing and confident as anyone out there.

If you read the comic strip "Peanuts," you probably know about the little red-haired girl. Charlie Brown worships her from a distance -- a long distance.

The few times he gets up the nerve to approach her, something gets in the way and messes things up. A lot of guys can sympathize, some more than others.

He adds that young women need to “understand that some shyness is embedded in the guy... certain situations or groups.” No matter the reason behind your guy’s shyness, our love experts can help you figure out how to make him yours!

How to Get His Attention Greif, Jasbina Ahluwalia, founder and CEO of successful matchmaking service Intersections Match, and psychotherapist Mary Waldon all agree that the number one tip for trying to date a shy guy is to take initiative!When you fall for a shy campus cutie, it may not seem easy to figure out if he likes you back.Some guys are just inherently shy, says Geoffrey Greif, a professor at the University of Maryland School of Social Work and author of .This is true, but handling this situation isn't as simple as you might think...The first thing to do when you find yourself attracted to a shy man is to question your feelings for him.Whether this means initiating eye contact, a conversation or a date, all of our experts stressed the importance of taking that first step.