Here are the guidelines of how to deal with the ones who are, and the ones who aren’t. These guys will be super fun to hang out with once they get to know each other well, and you’ll be the cool girl who can get in on that action when you need a break from girl drama.

He has already said that he would still like to date me if I want to, so it's basically up to me.

-- ANXIOUS IN THE MIDWEST DEAR ANXIOUS: As far as I know, there is no rule forbidding a college freshman continuing to date someone who is still in high school.

Manny wants his mom to butt out, so protective Gloria asks Jay to intervene.

From Episode 4 of Modern Family Season 6, "Marco Polo." ABC WEDNESDAYS 9|8c.

Just because he’s sitting alone and doesn’t speak to anyone in the class doesn’t mean he’s a total lunatic.

If you’re interested, all it takes is a slow pack-up-and-hang-back after class to initiate conversation.

Hooking up with one or two of your hallmates within the first few days of school, however, is a definite no-no.

When tempted to engage in “dormcest,” remind yourself that you’re going to have to face him—as well as everyone else on your floor, because they’re going to find out—for the rest of the year, no matter how good or bad your hook-up was.

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