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2 He is energetic and wants to impress you Younger men love to impress.

In the presence of an older woman that they are attracted to, chances are their testosterone will get into overdrive.

Parties, rock concerts, nightclubs—I dated the way I should have when I was younger: for fun, without an eye toward marriage. During that time, when I was in my late 30s, I made an important sociological discovery: Men over 40 are profoundly different from those under 35, and it's not just their hairlines.

As much as we're loath to admit it, we base most of our expectations about a relationship on the one we observed, for better or worse, growing up at home.

Maybe women feel that because girls have a head start on maturity back in the seventh grade, our emotional and spiritual equals must forever be at least five years older than we are.

Whatever part of the conventional wisdom they buy into, American women find it easy to summarily reject younger men. They could be denying themselves the most wonderful relationship of their lives.

He will be impressed by your achievements and look up to your success.

Over time this may balance out but it starts out with you as the accomplished, independent, cool one.

You don’t need to make like Stifler’s mom and prey on young 18-year-old boys. What you need to do is embrace the incredible sexual power you possess—and stop making excuses for why you can’t. If there’s one complaint I hear from younger men—and the reason they’re interested in older women, is that they’re a little tired of the same old scene and games.

They’re very into the idea of spending time with a woman who brings a little more to the table—a whole world of experience and interests outside of his own. He’s smarter than you think and would welcome a grown-up conversation, not to mention a mature relationship.

But you don’t have to be Jennifer Lopez to snare a committed and adorable younger fella. You have to not overlook this fun pool of potential suitors in pursuit of a traditional older man. But, for some reason, people don't seem as accepting of older women dating younger men. Younger men can talk to an older woman and really value their knowledge and sense of perspective.